What would you do?

blame-on-women via spirit21.co.uk

Answer me, oh my love, just what sin have I been guilty of? Won’t you tell me where I’ve lost your love? Please answer me sweetheart….so goes the first verse of an old song by Nat King Cole. I grew up with this song….I can hear my father crooning the words along with the radio… [Continue Reading]

Silence like a cancer grows…..

woman silenced via ivillage.com

  This line is borrowed from a very popular Simon and Garfunkel song. It starts off with, “Hello darkness my old friend, I’ve come to talk to you again…” This is the song of abuse. Abuse is cyclical. Life is “good” and then there is an event, some supposed affront….then comes the violence, whether physical,… [Continue Reading]

OBEY….

woman silenced via mansibhatia.com

  Such a small word….yet, so many hidden consequences. I do not know if modern wedding vows still tell a woman to obey her husband…this always bothered me. Who decided that “certain” groups should OBEY certain other groups? Children should obey their parents, even when the parent says to NOT tell the truth about sexual… [Continue Reading]

Words make a difference…choose wisely

Upset Teenage Girl With Friends Gossiping In Background

Do you remember the childhood poem, “sticks and stones can hurt my bones But WORDS will never hurt me”? That is DEAD WRONG! All we need to do is look at the number of teen suicides caused by verbal bullying to know that words can not only hurt but they can KILL the spirit. Verbal… [Continue Reading]

The GUILT belongs to the PERP….

woman via womensaid.org.uk

I had the GREAT fortune to attend the Omega Women and Power Conference last month. The line-up was powerful enough make activists faint! -Eve Ensler -Isabel Allende -Sally Fields -Elizabeth Lesser- Co-founder of Omega Elizabeth Lesser gave a house raising key note and one of the points that resonated most with me was this… The… [Continue Reading]

I am rising….will you?

One Million Rising

One Billion Women violated is an atrocity. One Billion dancing is a revolution. See this revolutionary new film and share it with everyone, spread the rising.

The story of Tatty…

hear her roar via www.kravchicks.org (2)

I first heard about Tatty from a dear friend. Tatty was in an abusive marriage for 11 years. She was not allowed to work and her husband was an alcoholic. She faced his wrath nightly. My friend, Jackie, told me that from time to time Tatty would call her in the middle of the night and beg for… [Continue Reading]

DOMESTIC VIOLENCE…why you should care.

Violence1 via blueline2011.files.wordpress

Why should you care? Why should anyone care about Domestic Violence? Domestic Violence is insipid. If you have never heard this term, the definition of domestic violence is the inflicting of physical injury by one family or household member on another; also : a repeated or habitual pattern of such behavior . Domestic violence is one of the most… [Continue Reading]