If you should see a sign above a beautiful doorway in a lovely building that reads Department of Emotions, you may be curious.
You may enter cautiously, with glee or maybe with anxiety. Let’s assume that you do enter and begin to look around.
Within this department, you may find floor upon floor of beautiful offices with open doors and nicely dressed people working away.
These employees have the job of dispensing emotions to the whole world. They actually love their jobs.
The way they do it is that they get telegraphic requests and they dispatch emotions at the speed of light.
You want Joy? Done.
Gratitude? Yes, lots being dispensed these days.
You look around some more and realize that some employees are sitting still, making no movement with no work to do.
You look at their titles and there seems to be a theme….Bliss, Ecstasy, Passion and you wonder why.
Then you wander some more and see some employees over-burdened, just dragging and stressed and you glance at their titles.
You see another theme…
You ask them why they are so exhausted and they don’t even have time to look up or answer you.
One of the other employees, the one called Ecstasy, tells you that some emotions are overused and the guys dispensing them cannot catch a break. No time for rest or sleep. No one seems to be taking breaks from fits of anger, rants full if rage or blinding hatred.
Then you begin to realize that you too have overused some emotions and woefully underused others.
You cannot remember the last time you telegraphed for Bliss or Passion and forget about Ecstasy.
I know that this blog is way out there. I hope that it gives you pause to consider which emotions you over use and which others you ignore.
I encourage you to use less anger and rage and use more of joy, bliss and passion.
Find something to be passionate about…a hobby or a cause.
Find Joy in the everyday stuff, even little things like the gift of sight or the ability to still climb stairs.
I believe it was Albert Einstein who said we can behave as if nothing is a miracle, or as if everything is a miracle.
Let’s live the miracles that are all around us.
Love and light,
Why should you care? Why should anyone care about Domestic Violence?
Domestic Violence is insipid. If you have never heard this term, the definition of domestic violence is the inflicting of physical injury by one family or household member on another; also: a repeated or habitual pattern of such behavior .
Domestic violence is one of the most chronically under-reported crimes. Only approximately one-quarter of all physical assaults, one-fifth of all rapes, and one-half of all stalkings perpetuated against females by intimate partners are reported to the police.…from www.ncadv.org/files/ DomesticViolenceFactSheet(National).pdf
Why would such crimes be under-reported?
Have you ever been a victim of hateful and nasty behavior?
This could be happening in high school. Perhaps a boyfriend tells you to be a certain way and if you do not, he berates you and calls you names that made you feel worthless.
He tells you that no other man could love you. He calls you a slut or other unsavory names. He makes fun of you in front of his friends.
Did you tell anyone?
Did you report him to the school authorities?
Did you call the Teen Abuse hot line 1−800−799−SAFE (7233)?
You probably did nothing.
You may not even have recognized that you were being abused. You may even have convinced yourself that it was your fault.
You may have seen your own Mother abused at home and so you feel that “true love” must look like that.
Your own Mother may be making excuses for the man in her life, and you see that her abuse is much more horrific.
So you say nothing.
After all, you do not have it “that” bad.
Abuse is insipid and it is confusing. How can a person with whom you are having intimate relations treat you so horribly? How can the person you swear you love be so mean and hateful to you?
You try so hard to please him and nothing ever works.
You feel like you are always walking on egg shells.
His rage erupts for the smallest infraction, and you are afraid to take any action unless the action is sanctioned by the abuser.
These are but a few of the reasons why Domestic Violence is under-reported.
Women are confused and brain washed into thinking that all of it is their fault.
One in every four women will experience domestic violence in her lifetime.1 An estimated 1.3 million women are victims of physical assault by an intimate partner each year.2 85% of domestic violence victims are women. Historically, females have been most often victimized by someone they knew. Females who are 20-24 years of age are at the greatest risk of nonfatal intimate partner violence. Most cases of domestic violence are never reported to the police.… from http://www.americanbar.org/groups/domestic_violence/resources/statistics.html
These facts were taken from a PDF found when I googled Domestic Violence.
I am not making this up. Below are actual numbers taken from the same article that I found on Google.
The cost of intimate partner violence exceeds $5.8 billion each year, $4.1 billion of which is for direct medical and mental health services.
Victims of intimate partner violence lost almost 8 million days of paid work because of the violence perpetrated against them by current or former husbands, boyfriends and dates. This loss is the equivalent of more than 32,000 full-time jobs and almost 5.6 million days of household productivity as a result of violence.
If you are not being abused, there is a VERY GOOD CHANCE that you know someone who is being abused.
Please keep your eyes and ears open. Please encourage those suffering to seek counsel and support. There are MANY support centers around the country and world. If you are the one suffering, please reach out here and I will direct you to some help in your area.
You can use a computer at the library or at a friend’s home.
This is NOT your fault. You have done NOTHING wrong.
You deserve to be loved and respected.
Please reach out either for your own self or for someone else.
My personal mantra is ONE ABUSED WOMAN IS ONE TOO MANY! Please help me in this endeavor to eradicate DV from the face of the earth. WE can do it if we band together.
Love and Light
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