Making a decision between your family and your work is never an easy task, especially when, which is more important changes with the circumstances. How can you determine when being with your family is most important? When going to work and supporting your clients is most important? In this episode Indrani, Amy, and Jeremie discuss tools you can use to make important decisions between your family and your work.
00:00 Introduction 01:20 Scenario 02:12 Jeremie – Accommodate, Avoid, Attack – How we say NO without saying NO 09:25 Discussion 17:00 Indrani – Your unreasonable “perfect should list” 23:10 Discussion 25:50 Amy – Contradictions between your different roles leading to shame 30:38 Discussion 39:00 Conclusion 40:36 Outro
I will respect myself at equal or higher levels than I respect any others.
I expect equal levels of respect from all I meet.
I will not make excuses for my activism.
I will support myself with all of my resources.
I am whole and I am unique.
When faced with your doubt I will not accept it as my own.
When faced with my own doubt I will meet it with love, not fear.
My work is grounded in love.
My love fuels my drive.
Love and light,
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