The book tells us the different ways that we show love and how we like for love to be shown to us.
I was having an intriguing conversation with a dear friend this week and it occurred to me that when people speak, they immediately tell us what kind of person they are.
They can see the world in any variety of ways and often all we need to do is USE our two ears more consistently than we use our one mouth.
We need to listen more than we speak.
When we listen, really listen, we will be able to hear what kind of life language people are using…
I know that you understand what I mean.
I recently reached out to an acquaintance and asked how they were doing, and the litany of complaints began. I immediately felt deflated. I felt like saying, has nothing positive happened in this whole year?
I did not. Instead I just listened and made an excuse and got off the telephone.
If we wish to elevate our spirit, we must choose carefully the kind of person with whom we commune.
Now, comes the scary question, what life language do you speak?
Are you one of the people who is uplifting or down putting?
If you don’t know, try listening to yourself.
If you don’t know how to listen to yourself, then ask a trusted friend how you come across and promise them to not shoot the messenger.
It is a worthy exercise.
Love and light,