- Make a batch of cookies with your kids for the holidays
- Clean out your pantry, take the canned goods you probably are not going to use and donate them to a food bank
- Take photos or a video of your kids and send it to their grandparents
- Rent a family movie from Redbox for $.99 and watch it with your children
- Rent a grown-up movie and watch it with your partner, and actually cuddle up with them on the sofa
- Go watch ice skaters, or look at holiday lights with your family and hold your child’s hand
- When you hug someone be present and hug them just a little longer than normal
- Donate some time to a shelter or project benefitting homeless or less fortunate people
- Call that family member you always mean to call but never do
- Get a small plant, a plate of cookies, a holiday card for the neighbors across the street (even if you never really liked them)
- Get the kids to make a Christmas ornament for the tree, and keep it for years to come.
- Take your kids Christmas caroling
- Help someone who could use a helping hand load their car with groceries, or other purchases.
- Give a dollar to the Salvation Army pot even if you think their bell ringing is annoying.
- Let someone with a child get ahead of you in the checkout line.
- Invite someone you know who lives alone to visit at your home for a cup of coffee
- Write your teens a special card to let them know that you love them
- Call your mother and listen to her tell you about the weather, or whatever
- Give an empathetic ear to someone in pain who is just looking for someone to listen.
- Give a call or email to someone who has recently lost someone they love from death, divorce, a child who moved away from home, etc.
- Say a heart felt prayer to those who are in greater need than you are.
- Read a story to a young child.
- Offer the time to babysit a friends children so he or she can have a little time themselves
- Offer some kind words, or a genuine greeting to someone in your office that usually goes unnoticed
- Help at a animal shelter for a day and show love to the animals seeking a home
- Give a batch of cookies to your local police or fire station, the first responders in your area
- Invite someone you know whose loved one is in the military and is overseas to your home and show the warmth of friendship and support
- Clean out your closet and donate the clothes you never wear to Salvation Amy or another charity.
- Dedicate a day to give a smile and a holiday greeting to everyone you encounter and watch their response.
- Visit someone you know who is in the hospital or shut in
- Call the sibling who you do not communicate with and wish them well
- Thank your parents, if for no other reason than for just being your parents, good or bad. They are just people trying to get through life
- Share a cup of coffee with a good friend who you rarely get to visit with
- Teach your children a song that you can sing together
- Encourage your children to create some holiday artwork and hang it on the refrigerator to display
- Have your children clean their closets and gather the toys they no longer play with and donate those that are not broken to children or a children’s hospital for other children to enjoy
- Let your spouse sleep in and handle a few of their regular household chores
- Tell your secretary thank you for their assistance for the past year
- Help decorate an elderly person’s house, or even their front door for the holidays.
- Help a person who is hosting a holiday dinner get things ready, so they may have time to perhaps rest or enjoy the event as well.
- Give $5 to a homeless person unconditionally and without judgement
- Invite someone who has no one to share the holidays with to your home to share the holiday with you
- Offer your home as a location for a pot luck holiday party
- Ask a neighbor if they could use a helping hand with something and assist them
- Donate pet food to a local pet shelter
- Drive someone home who has too much to drink at a holiday party
- Say yes to your children to something you would usually say no to because you are too tired or busy.
- Pump gas for an older person so they do not have to stand in the cold.
- Tell someone you love them, and mean it.
- Say a heart felt prayer of gratitude to God, which ever God you believe in.
If you look at this list a few key things jump out: SHARE, GIVE, THANK.
What gift ideas can you add to the list?