While growing up in Trinidad, West Indies, I was a Girl Guide. I was a troop leader and I guess, in hindsight I did learn a few things that have stuck.
The most important thing I learned was to BE PREPARED!
For what?
For what life brings.
Now it does not always work out that we can be prepared. Lord knows life has a way of throwing curve balls.
BUT, there are some things that are absolutely clear and the stuff you need is very apparent.
Going to swim? You need a suit, unless it’s skinny dipping time!
Going to lunch? You need money, unless someone else is paying.
Going to a conference with thousands in attendance for which you paid a hefty price? You need BUSINESS CARDS!!!!
I was recently at a conference with 1000+ attendees and almost 50% of the people I gave my card to said some version of “I left my cards at home”!
What does this have to do with you?
It all comes down to setting an INTENTION.
When you decide to do something, what is your intention?
Do you have a clear vision for what it is that you are doing?
For example, do you have a clear intention for that email that you want to send to a friend who always bothers you?
Do you have a set intention for dealing with the boss who always berates you in public?
As humans, we tend to allow our fears or our excitement cloud our bigger vision.
Folks were so excited to come to the conference that they lost track of the importance of leaving a trail…their business card.
Not only must you leave a trail, you must leave an impression. So you have to KNOW why you are attending and what you want from the conference.
If it’s just an excuse for a vacation then that is okay because that’s the intention. Accept it and speak it; give it voice and energy.
If your brain goes on freeze mode when you see your boss approaching, you must practice how to unfreeze your brain when you are not with your boss. Get a trusted friend to role play with you.
The point is, if you do not have a clear picture of how you want things to go, how can you get the help/resources you need to move ahead?
So make your plans and BE PREPARED!
Love and light,
Indrani