How large is your Grudge box?

How large is your Grudge box? First what IS a Grudge Box? It’s the place in your head where you keep track of all your past grudges. You know… The kid in high school who stole your ONE true love The woman in the grocery line who flirted with your ”ever-so-handsome-and-everyone-wants-him” husband The mother-in-law who never… [Continue Reading]

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Angry, humorless or just plain bitchy

“… strong professional women of all races are at risk of being classified as angry or humorless or just plain bitchy. Studies have shown that men who get angry are often rewarded in their career, while women who express anger tend to be penalized.” -Ilyse Hogue. This quote hardly needs any more explanation… except for… [Continue Reading]

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Maya Angelou says…

When a person shows you who they are, believe it the first time. Truer words were never spoken but are they ever hard to remember. I was teaching a class called Live a Brighter Life this week to a group who had the courage to step out of abusive relationships. All around the room I… [Continue Reading]

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Harriet Lerner and 106 Rules!

Harriet Lerner’s first book The Dance of Anger saved my life! I could never have guessed that I would be so luck as to be able to thank her in person. Thursday 12th of January at exactly 11am central time, I will say Thank You Dr. Lerner for being a writer! Then we will chat… [Continue Reading]

Harriet Lerner's new book MARRIAGE RULES

Step closer for a better view.

I have seen homeless people at a distance.  But I took a step closer and this is what I saw.   I did not see dirty people I saw people who looked their best. I did not see uncaring I saw people asking about one another. I did not see solitude I saw kinship.  I… [Continue Reading]

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